Our house isn’t made for us; it’s an institution for kids, pets, relatives, neighbors, and repairmen. Even if we could have sex, there isn’t anyplace to do it.
WIFE
The reported success of the Masters and Johnson treatment program had as much to do with the fact that the couples had a private place to have sex anytime they wanted to as anything else expert, enced during the program. Couples stayed at local motels during their therapy, always returning at night to be alone together to carry out sexual assignments. No matter what else you learn about super marital sex, real progress depends on having a place to be intimate.
The American marriage must reclaim its rightful territory. Your home belongs to you, is for you, and should reflect you.
To have super marital sex, you have to have one place in your home where nobody else can go but you and your spouse. This rule can never be violated. You will learn in the last chapter that the best form of sex education is to let your children know, let anybody know, that you make love. How, when, and what kind are private, but the act itself cannot be a secret, and the public setting aside of a place for the two of you to make love is one of the healthiest of family sex-education lessons.
Put a lock on the bedroom door. Paint a sign if you have to that reads PARENTS ONLY! or QUIET! PARENT LOVING GOING ON IN HERE. The bedroom will probably be the room that becomes your “clinic” because it is most often the most easily separated from the activities of the day, not because that is where the bed is or because sex must occur before sleep.
Once declaring the place, you must outfit it. The bedrooms of the couples I treated contained televisions, books, medicine for colds and flu, sewing machines, desks, computers, and assorted other items that had little to do with intimacy. One couple reported that “we keep the dog cage in there because he yelps at night and we can hit the cage from the bed with a slipper.” For super marital sex, some drastic and difficult changes are necessary. Here is the construction blueprint for your super marital sex clinic.
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